22 October 2009

Jambo, Jambo sana



Mama Tembo Kalenga, I even had to pause typing these words because of the way they twirl in my mind. Mama Tembo is the director of SHADE, though in our first staff meeting (where I was looking mainly at a room full of talented African Woman) she explained how she just likes to be known as a leader, not someone who barks orders.

Mama Tembo has 12 younger siblings and all the younger one she got into South Africa after there father died in the Congo. They are Zambian, but grew up in Congo. Many are related to the youth group here or SHADE (such as Vixa) but everyone else is like family too. And there is incredible respect for Mama Tembo.

Joyce is Mama Tembo's eldest daughter of 5 and incredibly friendly. She is helping at the office until she starts university in January. We met this joyous person at church on Sunday, where she mentioned to her mother we must go to there home for a traditional Congolese meal. I figured it would be at somepoint before we go to the conference in Congo- but I am quickly learning if Joyce even mentions something it will happen. Mama K explained she is the eldest in her family so she has a lot of decision making power and responsibility with her siblings. And we are pretty sure she has taken us under her wing as sisters so dinner happened as will getting Congolese outfits made for each of us.Joyce and I at the office, there weren't enough chairs.

Joyce's sisters made the whole beautiful meal and are very good cooks. One stayed home sick, but she ended up having to cook most of the day and the others helped after they got home from school. And I think they have the most energy I have ever seen a group of girls having. They sing and joke and are just wonderful people, whom are teaching us. They also instructed how to present dinner and wash hands, etc. These will be important for me especially to learn because they are customs I will have to use when visiting sites and elders. The food was incredible, we liked everything and it truly was a feast. We also started to practice all the names of the foods, but need a little work.

Most importantly there is pap (pronounced pop) which is the sustenance food (like bread or rice). It seems like it takes a lot of work to make and at some point we are supposed to learn how, because if we can't make it well our doweries will be lower. It kind of looks like mashed potatoes in the bowl but is more firm. Below Vixa is showing us how to ball it to use it to eat and soak up all the good juices. L-R Joyce, Vixa, and Freddy (another of Mama Tembo's brothers). And then Clifford looking at the TV and Rachel and Jen enjoying the meal.



However, while the girls were cooking Mama Tembo came home and shared her story with us. It was the first time we had really gotten a chance to talk to her, but I can barely express here how much the experience meant. Many here have powerful stories, but Mama Tembo told her whole story and as such an important figure in our lives it was an intense yet peaceful time. There is such a dignity in these stories, that I thought they would drain all my energy, but instead they are almost fuel. And in the midst of incredible seriousness, as she calmly spoke her girls and family are in the next room singing and laughing. I need a word better than beautiful and strong and hopeful to explain. This moment will always be part of my Africa experience and I am so happy it happened during our first true time to talk with her alone.

Then she asked all of us to share our stories and I am very glad I got to hear so much from my strong counter parts. So much happens in a life to shape us and we often take for granted or think we understand from pieces of peoples stories, when sometimes we only know a very litle bit. I actually had a lot of trouble trying to tell mine. But I think there is no greater honor then soaking in others stories. I will work on telling my own.


Oh Yombo is a Swahili greeting...

I don't know how to say goodbye yet,
Cheers,
Hannah

Cape Town

Our first day in Cape Town we headed to the Waterfront with Mama Karen and got lots of supplies and the practical things we needed to acquire. Mama K also brought us by the beach. Seeing Table Mountain again and everyday is wonderful, but it is even greater through Rachel's intense excitement and joy in new beauty. I think we share and feed of of this gift of hers a lot.

The ship in the photo was abandoned, by foreign nationals because it got stuck in the bay, so now the South African government has to figure out what to do with it and pay to get ride of it or blow it up... i love international relations.

more on work and the dignified people coming into our life soon!
Cheers,
Hannah



Rachel, me, and Jen, with table mountain in the background, photos courtesy of Jen and camera.

17 October 2009

23rd Birthday- October 8th and 24 hours


So it’s been a week now since my 23rd Birthday, but the story bears telling. I was all set for focusing on training, but still excited for OCTOBER 8th (will someone from DUMC please tell Mittie Happy Birthday for me and thanks for the e-card! Also thank you everyone else for your warm wishes!) My darling roommate at Stony Point Amihan (currently serving in DC) finally woke up and gave me a big hug and headed to breakfast with me. Rosanna a missionary from NC, had the entire cafeteria sing to me before 9 am.

Our sessions went well and during I got packages from both Mom and DAD’s family. We were a little confused about mom sending me cereal at the bottom of the package, but turns out inside was a tray filled with brownies. So all combined we had enough food to really snack for a while. Then we ended up doing video taped interviews and head shots and group photos early, which turned out to be a good thing before our next session.



Because right before it started Suzanne and Glenn came to get us and sat us down in another room, to explain the South African Embassy wanted more information as our criminal histories from the Board were not from the places they wanted. So finding this out a little before two they decided they wanted Rachel and I to go home and get an FBI or State Police criminal history background check (there was a lot more back and forth and more lost in translation than this but onward).

Well Jen is from South Dakota and getting her there in time to get everything before close of business of Friday was doubtful and much more expensive and of course Monday was Columbus Day and the embassy was closed so nothing was to be processed until Tuesday. Tuesday was our commissioning and we were flying out Thursday so this was all getting to feel a bit scrunched, but we had a mission in front of us and that gives me adrenaline to focus on what needs to be done and have faith that I can get my part done and everything will work out. (Jen being from South Dakota- called the State Police who were very sweet and willing to help and fedexed a letter for her.)

Glenn drove Rachel and I into the city as soon as we got tickets and worked some of what we needed out and as the traffic was getting worse we decided it would be faster to walk.

Unfortunately we stopped to get out in a bus lane, but the side doors to the van don’t open unless the car is in park. Rachel got out of the front seat and I was trying to pass her backpack from the back – but an angry bus was coming down the bus lane and she finally had to run to the street instead of getting run over by the bus. It took Glenn and I another block to pull over away from the bus and there is Rachel running down the street not too frazzled just on a mission. I handed her here things and we were running toward Penn Station to get her eon her train in time.

We both made it and I soon settled in on the bus, realizing it did in fact have internet- so I could have written this story last week, but instead I used the down time to look at the beautiful day out of the window and try to plan how to get everything done the next morning so we could return to training by the afternoon.

Truthfully everything in this stretch of time felt so fast I can barely remember it happened. My Dad had been informed of the process and was calling ahead to the police station for me and had told the rest of the family, but I knew I wouldn’t have time to tell anyone else. Mom ended up picking me up from the bus, a block away from where she had put us on the Bus to go up to New York. We went to Hook to surprise Simon and were there in time that I could still be served dessert. IT was lovely to calm down for a moment and really get to see my Mom- as it had been very frantic before I left.

Becca, my godsister, was also in town for one more night and we hadn’t seen each other in a year. So we drove by her house to hug and catch up quickly before she headed back to China. Also Peter and Becca’s mom joined us in the front yard and we all got to have conversation for a few minutes. Which was about all I was good for.

The next morning I met my DAD at the courthouse to go get the form and fingerprints. When we went up despite information from two different people my Dad had talked to the day before, we found out Arlington County could not get me what I needed. After another phone call with Gail—

Side note: Gail Coulson (photoed above with Jen, me, Gail, and Rachel at Commissioning)– fills my heart with joy. Gail is the Regional Executive for GBGM for everyone in Africa. She is also South African and while she is very busy, tended to helping set up every little detail for us, especially the Visas. Anyway, key person for you to know about. Gail also was clear to let the Embassy know with everything, she was happy her country was being careful with who they let in. Truthfully, I just kept thinking of how much harder it is for so many other people to get Visas. We just needed one more piece of information and had a lot of people helping us. I don’t think God meant for us to have borders like we do.

After the conversation- we went back in (because you cant have phones in the courthouse) to get finger printed, but turns out they don’t do it on Fridays. Got the Arlington County Background form cleared though. Then went home to print off the forms to get the Virginia State form and the FBI cover letter to send in applications and money to get the process started – as we were told they couldn’t be hand delivered.

At this point I have learned the process takes 12 days in VA and the FBI could take up to 3 weeks (but we tried to put an express date on). I was to leave in 6 days.

Then went to get a certified Check, and everything notarized, then found the State Police Office to get lots of fingerprints for everyone. And decided to take the train back to get there around the same time as Rachel and in time to get all the paper work to the office before we headed back up to training. DAD got me to the train in time and mailed everything for me and I took a copy of everything for the Embassy so they knew everything was in process.

The train ride back I was exhausted, but I met a very interesting main who is the CEO of a company that works with new technologies and is trying to get electricity after food and water to many communities around the world. He is originally Indian and we had great conversations on sustainability and social issues and the environment that we talked about two and a half hours. He wants us all to wait for LED light bulbs and he is hoping they come out within the next nine months.

Rachel and I met each other in the train station (after the Visa and quick traveling portion of our training) exactly 24 hours after we left NYC. We met Gail and Glenn at the office and made copies of everything and got everything ready for the Embassy.

(Going back to training was a bit hard, because the group is so close but hard to be away for a day. We had a party with all the groups being trained- but it was also decided my toe needed medical attention so I wouldn’t have problems on the plane because of my nail. That is another story- but has since been taken care of and was no trouble on the plane.)

We didn’t hear anything until the day of Commissioning. Gail was camped out at the Embassy so she knew it was being taken care of. Finally a few hours before Commissioning we found out they would accept all the forms from Rachel and I as enough supplemental information, but we were unsure about Jen (who had the early nonchangeable flight).

Gail came up in time for Commissioning and it was so lovely to see her! Commissioning was beautiful and we felt totally a part of the moment (thanks for all who watched!) it is still online at www.ummissionaries.com if anyone wants to watch segments of it- but I doubt the music came out as well.

The next day we headed into the city incase we needed to get to the embassy. Gail called around 2:45 and said “now don’t scream too loud I don’t want you to get in trouble at the guest house… But you all have visas and I am picking them up and will come down and meet you to go over everything for you and then we can all go to dinner.”

There was only minor screaming. And then we all took naps. We had a lovely dinner with Gail in the city and Beth (in the youth and young adults arm of GBGM, who had lived with us all the two weeks at training) joined as well and we got our final cupcakes from Magnolias in the city.

Turns out the Visas worked and after a day of traveling Rachel, Jen, and I are sitting in our kitchen typing up e-mails before our computers run out of power. We are hoping to get to an internet CafĂ© to send messages home, and then to get appropriate adaptors. So if this was a bit rushed (though very lengthy- it is due to that). We are happy and healthy and finally got a good night’s sleep in our new home.

Let the rejoicing and getting our hands dirty start!

In Praise,
Hannah

13 October 2009

Commissioning

I am excited to share the story of my 23rd birthday and 24th hours with the Visa situation. But waiting on a few more details to make that a complete story...

In the mean time I have a few minutes before we all head to Stamford, CT for the Board of Global Ministries Board meeting where our Commissioning will take place tonight.

7pm EST www.ummissionaries.org for live streaming.

This also means our training comes to an end (in this capacity as I would argue, as I think the training is just beginning). Its been a very important time of preparing and getting practical information. And in some ways just a big party getting to know missionaries and deaconesses and home missioners and the rest of te young adults. I love the different perspectives people bring and the different experiences.

The changing leaves, fire pit, and playground don't hurt either. The other US-2's and Mission Interns have really become a family to process where we are and where we are going. Last night after our last service we had a mini Christmas, complete with gift exchange and a few carols. It seemed fitting to celebrate the promise of new beginnings...

Okay being called to get into the vans.

Prayers for everyone being commissioned tonight!
Cheers,
Hannah

11 October 2009

Children's Sabbath Sunday

We went into the city today to go to Church. This Sunday is Children's Sabbath Sunday which made the wheels start turning for me as I am preparing more for being the Orphan Care facilitator for SHADE.

"...children are now acknowledged to be full human beings in their own right..." - Social Principles

So love for the children today and caring for each other.

Peace,
Hannah

06 October 2009

e-mail 10/6

Dear lovely Friends and Family,

When writing in my journal or handwritten letters I like to add in the physical context of where I am writing from. I am currently sitting in my room at Stony Point Center in Stony Point, New York with the window open and leaves starting to fall outside.

Last time I spoke to many of you I was in very different places so lets play a brief catch up.

From February until May I spent three months driving and staying with wonderful family and friends from DC to California and back. That was my last big e-mail and many of you I gave the blog- roadtripramblings.blogspot.com. Unfortunately, the blog didn't make it past Mississippi/ New Orleans. But I did with many more stories and totally filled with all the stories and love of all of you I saw along the way. Thank you!

I got back with my mom just in time to attend formal graduation and the next week found out I got a position with the Higher Achievement Program (higherachievement.org) as a summer teacher. So after two weeks of training I began a journey with some wonderful, inspiring, tiring, and challenging 5th-8th graders in Alexandria VA. I taught 8th grade Science, 7th grade Math, and a Newspaper elective and worked with an amazing group of people that cared about every scholar and supported each other. I had amazing support and dialogue and pray for new teachers that really don't have that but huge class sizes. I loved getting the chance to try teaching and hope the scholars got a few things out of it.
(Side note if you are in the DC area the program has five sites around DC and can always use more mentors one evening a week. If you are interested please see the website/ or let me know)

So now lets explain why I am in Stony Point. Some of you know I applied to be a Mission Intern through the United Methodist Board of Global Ministries Young Adult Programs. It has been a long process and I will be serving as a Mission Intern in South Africa with the organization SHADE for a year and a half and then a year and a half in a US placement site. SHADE has 27 sites in 20 countries throughout Africa. As I know it now I will be working with facilitating orphan programs in Malawi, Botswana, and Swaziland. This will entail working out of the main office in South Africa (which will be in Cape Town the first three months and then the office and myself and counterparts will move to Johannesburg) and traveling for probably two weeks to each site. Two other mission interns, JEN TYLER AND RACHEL KELLER will be serving at the same site but working on different projects. There is a chance two of us may switch when we get there and speak with our supervisors more.

As part of the program I am currently in training with the other Mission Interns and US-2s (domestic arm of program). We are also do some group sessions with standard support Missionaries and Deaconesses and Home Missioners in the UMC. And there are great stories here especially between all the different groups and I love the other Mission Interns and US-2s).

We are all being commissioned on October 13th at 7pm in Connecticut. But its supposed to be a pretty big deal and this year for the first time they are broadcasting it live over the Internet with twitter and facebook chat feeds. If you are interested you can watch at ummissionaries.org. (however it may be two and a half hours long!) Then I leave for South Africa on October 15th from NYC.

I hope that helps get everyone up to speed again. Ohh and I have no idea what my address is yet, but I am starting a new blog and am trying to change my blogging ways a bit to post more bits a pieces.

hannahatshade.blogspot.com

Thank you all for your support. If you have any questions please, would like to unsubscribe, or have a random thought please let me know. I hope everyone is doing well and other new adventures are starting well. Also if you are changing e-mails let me know and I would love to get home addresses.

Cheers,
Hannah